11 Health Benefits of Orgasms

11 Health Benefits of Orgasms

Beyond the “they feel good” reason we have for wanting orgasms, getting off is genuinely good for us. With or without a partner, you can have all the orgasms you want thanks to masturbation. Use a sex toy, your hand, or some part of your partner that you love (like their tongue!), and get more orgasms. When they ask why …

How to Do a BDSM Scene From Start to Finish

How to Do a BDSM Scene From Start to Finish

A kinky BDSM scene sounds interesting but when you first begin, you have more questions than answers. Doesn’t it involve costumes, paddles, rope, and dirty talk? Do you need to go to a hotel or can you do it at home? And how do you even set one up and make it happen? BDSM scenes aren’t nearly as complicated as …

6 Types of Vibrators to Include in Your Sex Toy Collection

Not all vibrators are the same. From brand to brand and style to style, no two are alike – just like the people who use them. If you know you’re the type who enjoys vibrations, pulsations, and other buzzy stimulation, half the fun is in trying out a new sex toy. You might have your favorite go-to vibrator, but you’d …

4 Ways to Get Sexy in Long Distance Relationships

4 Ways to Get Sexy in Long Distance Relationships

Long distance relationships are hard. Ask anyone who’s ever fallen in love with someone a continent or even a state away, and they’ll tell you that it requires a lot of effort. You really have to love your partner to stay with them through the distance and the weeks or months spent apart. But what about sex? Getting off together …

Do You Have to Be Monogamous?

Do You Have to Be Monogamous?

In a world where open relationships and polyamory are getting more attention, the “right” answer regarding monogamy can feel confusing. Should you open up your relationship or stay completely monogamous? And what does it mean if you still enjoy looking at people you find attractive or have a “Free Pass List” in your relationship? The quick and easy answer to …

Erotica: Reading Your Way to Sexual Pleasure

Your sex toy might get you off, but what turns you on? Some people like to watch porn. Others perv the not-safe-for-work side of social media, looking for dirty images. Would it surprise you to know that for some people, reading erotica gets them hard, makes them wet, and turns any sex session – solo or not – into a …

How Virtual Reality Could Change Sex

How Virtual Reality Could Change Sex

Technology has been changing how we interact with each other for years. One day we carried phones that required a multiples taps just for the letter “s” and the next, we all had small computers in our hand. When technology changes, the sex industry is never far behind. In fact, it’s usually right out in front. If you’ve seen people …

5 Ways to Try Role Play Without Feeling Ridiculous

5 Ways to Try Role Play Without Feeling Ridiculous

Do you have a fantasy about being a kidnap victim or throwing making someone walk the plank of your pirate ship? Maybe you really like the idea of costumes and an elaborate scene with your partner. Some people really get into role play and others just feel awkward. If you’re new to the idea of role play, you might feel …

Does Size Really Matter?

Does Size Really Matter?

Ask anyone with a penis, and they’ve likely been thinking about size since they realized they had a penis. Is it too big? Is it too small? How does it compare with other penises? Does the relative size of a penis actually matter? When you think of size and sex, the penis is often the first thing that comes to …

6 Things We Should Have Learned in Sex Ed

6 Things We Should Have Learned in Sex Ed

It’s the 21st century, and there are still states that don’t offer sex education at all. Those that do usually have archaic rules about what’s allowed to be taught and what’s not, like abstinence-only education. In fact, in Mississippi, teachers can’t demonstrate how to use a condom prompting a creative lesson about socks from one teacher. Whatever little sex education …